Is Your Child Starting College this Fall? Here’s How to Prepare

It likely feels as if, just yesterday, your child was a toddler. And, somehow, that toddler will now be starting their first semester of college in the fall. It’s also likely that you felt like you had all the time in the world to prepare, and now that the moment is fast approaching, you feel unsure of your next move—or even panicked about what this looks like for you financially. To guide you along the way, we’ve listed a few things to consider as you prepare for your college student’s first year. 

1. Consider How Financially Involved You Will Be

Before you begin planning, you must have an understanding of how much (or how little) you will be involved financially with your child’s college expenses. This way, you have a foundation to start from, and you can bring a solid financial plan to your child to explain their role. 

Here are a few questions your family will want to discuss: 

  • Will my child work throughout the school year? If so, how much? 
  • Am I planning to pay all expenses, including living expenses? 
  • Do I plan on my child taking out any student loans? 
  • How many years does my child plan to attend school? Will I pay for each year?

By answering these questions, you can begin to build a clear picture of your expectations for yourself as your child attends school. You will then use this information to guide you through these next five items.

2. Gather a Comprehensive List of Expenses

The expense that will surprise you won’t be the annual tuition but rather the various miscellaneous needs. Take time to research exactly what your child will need and want in their college career. Once you have a comprehensive list, you can decide who is responsible for which expenses, you or your child.  

Often, the university will provide a list of expected costs to help you; but to give you an idea, here are a few possible expenses to look out for: 

  • Technology (computer, tablet, phone, etc.)
  • Books
  • Dorm room essentials 
  • Health insurance
  • Meal plans
  • Parking pass
  • Emergency fund
  • Fraternity or sorority dues
  • Study abroad

3. Talk Through Expectations with Your Child

As you discover what the total cost of your child’s college will be, including miscellaneous expenses, it’s essential to communicate your expectations clearly to your child. Let them know what the costs are, what you will cover, what you expect them to pay, and the rules for any allowance funds. By talking openly to your child about the financial side of their college education, you create space for a conversation about financial responsibility, what they can expect, and how they should budget according to the plan. 

4. Talk with Your Child About Budgeting

Their first year of college will be your child’s first time out on their own, budgeting to make their money last without you there to oversee their spending. Leading up to their first semester, talk often and openly about budgeting responsibly, using yourself as an example. If you feel that your child will relate better to someone more objective, consider finding a budgeting webinar or tutorial that you and your child can work through together. 

5. Talk with Your Child’s School’s Financial Aid Office

To have the most comprehensive understanding possible of your child’s expenses, talk with their school’s financial aid office to review their financial aid package. Remember that if your financial situation has changed since your child applied for aid (e.g., you have a decrease in income), you can appeal for it to be reevaluated based on your new circumstances. 

6. Review Your Insurance Coverage

Consider sitting down with your insurance agent to discuss your child going to college and how that may change your coverage needs. You may find that you should make changes to their auto insurance or even that you should add renter’s insurance for their college housing. Make sure that you calculate an approximate value of what your student will have with them (especially their devices). 

Need Help Planning for Your Child’s College? 

You don’t have to navigate your child’s college finances alone. With a financial advisor on your side, you can make the choices that are best for your family’s long-term plan. Ready to build a plan that works for you? Contact Southwestern Investment Group today to schedule a consultation!

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Jeffrey T. Dobyns

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President, SageSpring | Financial Advisor, RJFS 
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Jeffrey T. Dobyns

President, SageSpring | Financial Advisor, RJFS

Beyond crunching numbers and investment strategies, at SageSpring, we’re about building relationships. When you encounter Founder & President of SageSpring, Jeff Dobyns, it’s easy to understand why this is at the very heart of who we are as a firm. You won’t find stuffy formalities with Jeff; instead, you can expect to find him sharing a warm smile, communicating a compelling vision, or patiently untangling life’s complex challenges with clients. He believes in truly getting to know clients, understanding their aspirations and priorities, and navigating their financial plans with a tailored, comprehensive approach. Our team members have often been caught taking notes on Jeff’s effortless relationship skills from a distance, and we admire them for striving to learn from one of the best. 

Jeff’s financial expertise and wisdom are the perfect match to his innate people skills. Jeff holds the prestigious CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNERTM certification, Chartered Life Underwriter (CLU®), and Chartered Financial Consultant (ChLU®) designations, and has held executive positions with financial planning firms for more than two decades. 

His dedication extends beyond the office to the boardroom and the local community, where Jeff is passionate about giving back. He serves as Chairman of the Board of Men of Valor, a prison ministry and mentoring program. Jeff also serves on the board of Send Musicians to Prison, which shares hope, healing and restoration with the imprisoned through musicians & artists. Jeff actively supports other initiatives in the community by sitting on the board of The Signatry of Middle Tennessee and the Halftime Institute of Nashville. 

Witnessing his four children, Gracyn, Hunter, Tanner, and Logan, excel on the field is almost just as rewarding, if not more, than celebrating the victories of seeing his clients overcome obstacles and build wealth. Spending weekends boating on the lake, hiking mountain trails, and fishing with his family are the moments Jeff cherishes most. It’s this grounded perspective that reveals the true meaning of wealth for Jeff: not just numbers on a page, but the freedom to create experiences that enrich your life and the lives of those you love. When you choose the Dobyns McMillin Wealth Team, you choose more than financial expertise. You choose a partner who champions your dreams, celebrates your victories, and walks besides you on the path to achieving your unique goals.

**Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards Inc. owns the certification marks CFP®, CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER TM, CFP® (with plaque design) and CFP® (with flame design) in the U.S., which it awards to individuals who successfully complete CFP Board’s initial and ongoing certification requirements.